Monday, September 28, 2009
Saturday, September 26, 2009
According to my study, children don't play together until at least 3 years old. However....those 2 are different! They ALWAYS play together. On the other day, they were playing hide and seek (maybe peek-a-boo?), playing music, feeding each other, exchanging personal stuff, pushing same bucket together... What's going on!!!??? Is my son so mature that he is acting like 5 years old!!?? Should I report to psychologist or children behavioral specialists????
He also does so many things that he is not supposed to do until later on in his life...like stucking couple blocks together, pointing names on books, be able to identify different books, and so on!
He must be genius or I must be one proud parent!!!
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Saturday, September 12, 2009
My older son....he has been practicing karate for a while now. He used to go to everyday....almost 6 days a week, nowadays only twice a week due to increasing needs of studying and other things.
Not sure if he even likes karate. I know he likes his friends there. I know it helped him A LOT to focus. I know it's good exercise. But sometimes I wonder if I should just let him quit....because he complains a lot when we are about to leave for karate. (Then he is happy to be there when he is there!)
I took many classes when I was young. Gymnastics, swimming, piano, English conversation class, and so on....nothing lasted. I just quit. I regret I didn't continue. I wish my parents forced me to continue little longer so I learned/remember something out of them. Of course I had my reasons why I didn't want to continue these lessons and there were other things I really wanted to learn and wished my parents respected my feelings, so I am really confused.
It's hard to be a parent and make decision for the children. I remember I HATED gymnastics class but now I WISH I continued. Ambivalent feelings over the years.... I am sure he is feeling same. He must be confused also.
Should I keep him there? Or should I let him try other thing instead? Am I pushing him too much? Haaaaaaaaaaa....
Mr.Miyagi...from karate kid, how did he make the kid black belt so quickly??? I need him. If he is black belt now, I have no regret to let him quit now!!!
After all...I believe in you, son! You can be one strong man who can protect yourself and others. You have Samurai soul somewhere in you....!!! GANBATTE!!!
Friday, September 11, 2009
It's been very long time since I started to say I want to move to Hawaii.
So, last couple months, I have been telling people I am moving to Hawaii instead of saying I want to move to Hawaii.
People have been asking me when I am moving....hmmmm, let's see...after older one graduates from elementary school? After older one turns to 18 years old? (I have joint legal custody, so it's not easy for me to move around) When I win lotto?
Or...maybe next year!!!!
I can't wait.....!!!!